THERE SEEMS to be a universal feeling among Gay Mormon fathers who are beginning to come to grips with their sexuality that they are the only men in the world caught in such a situation. One of the greatest gifts a Gamofite can give to his brothers is his personal story of self-discovery.
A number of Gamofites have agreed to share their stories with us here. Some chose to use their real names, some pseudonyms in the interest of their privacy or that of their families. We encourage all to share their stories with us so we may all grow.
Tom Gloss, married his high school sweetheart at age 19, joined the LDS Church, and had four children. He always suspected he might be gay, but he tried everything to be a good husband, father, and church leader.
Rod Kempton, a grandfather of three, drew from his service as a bishop and in other Church callings the spiritual strength to accept himself and know that God loved him.
Bob Olsen , Maryland, a past chairperson of the Gamofite Resource Committee, tells of the discovery of his sexuality and the love and growing acceptance of his family.
John Benson, is the father of four children, three of whom served missions and all of whom have married in the temple. He also has some adorable grandchildren. John shares his journey to self-acceptance.
Mark Evans is out to his wife and still married. Mark tells of the struggles and the rewards of trying to stay together.
Aaron Vinck, San Francisco, recently divorced, relates his experiences of coming out to himself, his wife, young daughter, and family.
Mike Green talks about overcoming a destructive set of core beliefs and replacing it with a set that is more affirming.